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Sometimes i think of him

It's been half a year since I last contacted "him." Supported him like a dumb cheerleader and splurge on things and patiently showing my support, but also neglected. I was frustrated. Ashamed that some friends warned me but I never paid attention to the red flags. I wanted to believe in him, but I was blind. He gave me every excuse in the book, until he ran out of pages. I caught him in a lie, everything I ever wanted to do with him, he did it with some other Chinese chick.

I told him that I will be walking away to keep my dignity. This was a special person who I thought was my "bestfriend." And it's tough, because everything I ever loved was shared with him. Thinking I mattered. I hate building up men, until they monkeybranch by finding another woman to replace me.
So sorry to hear about this, I myself was recently betrayed by a friend whom I trusted blindly. I guess, when we ignore the red flags, we are aiding for a much bigger collapse for ourselves.
Most of us have been there at some point. Its unfortunate you wasted your time and money on him. Its a good lesson though if you remember it.

It took twice happening to me bc i forgot the lesson.
Busybee333 · 26-30, F
Nice that you walked away, your heart deserves someone kind and sincere. Walk forward and keep your head high, you have the strong woman's path ahead of you ♥️
eMortal · M
Sorry it happened to you.
When people are finally successful in business they tend to have an affair or get into new relationships.

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