I Am Feeling Heartbroken

Every female I meet eventually gets tired of me and walks away. Another one I cared about told me to go away and leave alone after we argued over the weekend. I'm not perfect but I forget & forgive. I never really lose guy friends so there's that. I haven't met that girl that's strong enough to not walk away from a genuinely good person like myself. I care for the ones I love and I would never do bad to them. It just hurts because I thought we'd be friends for a long time. Tired of people leaving me over petty arguments

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

so you are talking female friends.. not girlfriends/lovers? when romantic feelings get involved it complicates things and makes it harder not toget upset and offended when you argue.. this is why most of your guy friends stay..they dont fancy you :P but boy girl can be friends.. it's just it gets complicated when one wants more than friendship

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

I'm sorry to read you're heartbroken, but two things do suprise me. 1. you refer to women as female - that seems a bit... dehumanising as a term - just my reflection, I'm sure you don't mean it that way. 2. That the women you grow fond of leave over petty arguments. I am wondering if they don't view that same argument the way you did?

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

well thats the problem isnt it.. if one wants more and the other doesnt it ruins the friendship.. not her fault not yours.. you dont have the same complication with men..so it works without that pressure.

IllusionaryGentleman39 · 26-30, M

I wanted more than friendship and that's when things started to really go downhill.

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