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I Am Feeling Heartbroken

My mother told me that any guy that would ever date me was going to leave. As much as I hate that woman with all of my being, she was right. We broke up today and I feel like I lost a part of myself.
Keep in mind, this is the guy I thought I was going to marry. We looked at engagement rings together. He promised me we would get married. I based my entire life around the idea that we’d stay together. I chose my career because it made the most sense for what he wanted. I was the one that had to move closer to him. I had to sacrifice so much for him. I lost friends, family, etc. because he didn’t like them. I had to quit my old job because he didn’t like my coworker.
I just wanted to be good enough for someone for once in my life. I will never be enough for anyone.
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JP1119 · 36-40, M
I just read this, I'm so sorry. But don't be sad it's over, be glad it happened. Think about this: you found someone you were "good enough for" for a while, and it was someone you really liked. Now I'm turning 31 years old Monday, and do you know how many times that's happened to me before? Zero. I'm stuck wondering if it's even possible for me to love someone who loves me too, or if I'm just cursed, or if God doesn't want me to be happy, or if there's something mentally or emotionally wrong with me that makes it impossible. But you found someone before, so you should know it's possible that you'll find someone again.