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pilgrim98 · 41-45, M
I'm really really sorry. I know there's nothing anyone can say that will help this to "go away" or feel better. But I really hope you find some good stuff in life today. Something that will make you smile or laugh.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Cherish the good memories. Love the child and understand this relationship was never meant to be. Move on and find the love of your life.
Thank you, I'll try day by day until I'm ready to meet someone again. @GJOFJ3
lovingdead · 31-35, M
Like seeds .hearts too have to break before something can grow from them.....and it fucking sucks

You're not alone in the chaos of betrayal, I know it's not much of a comfort if any. Sorry for your pain
It is comforting to know I'm not alone and that perhaps this is just a process of growth. I know it will take some time, but thank you. @lovingdead
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
He sounds bi not gay.and sorry you are going through this
Thank you Daisy :). And that's what I was thinking as well, I believe he just feels "gay" right now since he's only been involved with guys not girls the past few months. And if he really met a guy he "loves" then he's going to feel gay. But he used to tell me "yeah I'm more straight than gay" and now he says "I'm a lot more gay than straight." When I asked him about that he said it's because he didn't explore that side before and now he has...which leads me to feel betrayed. If he would have just focused on working together on our relationship instead of experimenting then he may not feel this way right now. But if he's truly gay...then I guess it was important for him to find himself. Idk, his last 2 counselors advised him to do this process of experimenting 😒. I plan to talk to him more tomorrow and explain that sexuality can fluctuate...but idk if I'm just in denial.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@Imagine626 well I wish you luck.I don't know what will happen but he's father of your kid and will have to deal with you so better open communication now.Hugs to you.
SW-User
So sorry you're going through this :(
It's okay 😞 @SW-User
SW-User
@Imagine626 It's not really but dont let him shirk his responsibilities as a dad. 🤗🤗
Oh I won't 😊. He's a very nurturing guy, I believe he will make a great father even if we can't be together...(I use future tense because baby is due in 8 weeks). @SW-User
SW-User
That's so rough, I am sorry you are going through that. ((hugs))
Thank you *hugs* @SW-User
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
🤗 that is a real tough situation.
@CheerfullyCurious It is 😞. But thank you for the hug emoji🤗!
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It's okay 😞 @SW-User
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khaledkhaled · 31-35, M
Sorry for that o hate gays .. It's just stupid after having a kid and having a family .. I really support some countries being strict with gays , you know why? Because they do not do it because they born gays, but they doing it as other level of sex.. I'm truly sorry for what happened to you
Planktin01 · 22-25, M
It sucks I know. Cry if you need to, you'll feel better some day. Maybe once your baby calls you "mama" for the first time, you'll smile again. Just hang on for the kids sake. It sucks he won't have a father, but at least he/she will have mom like you.

 
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