The Love you want or the Love you deserve?

I think you get the love that fits, or Spock- like the love mind melds with you. It was a strange thing hit me and her Sixty years ago. At the same time, never met. We honestly knew immediately we fit as perfect as you can. Nothing will ever fit perfectly and it sure doesn’t run smoothly ever after. You just hang on some times and see where it goes. We’ve made it sixty years so far. I’m not bragging by saying that, love comes at you. You may have never thought you could even like someone and that might be your fit. I don’t think you have much to do with it.

"We accept the love we think we deserve"

The love I want is what I deserve but so far that ain't happening...and idt I'll allow it to happen if it slapped me in the face. It's confusing.

I'm sure you deserve the best and i know you have been through a lot of bad times.....

It’s never about what I want or deserve so I love myself.

I would be happy with either