I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to notice life with you. "taste this. look at that. hear this song." again and again. until you can't imagine noticing life without them.
I believe in pure love. I think if things get neglected and life happens with its rocky roads and twists it can be hidden but there is hope in complete restoration if God has His hand on it. Still in progress but improving daily Will get back to you.