Will I ever fall in love? I’ve been asked

I am twenty six and my time is running down for love and motherhood. I am not thinking that I’m going to find a Ukrainian 🇺🇦 man who will be my husband, I know my friend Tim doesn’t have any thoughts of marriage, he just doesn’t know how to pursue that ambition.

Tim is devoted to art 🖼 and he’s a perfectionist who loves women but most likely thinks of more than one at a time, not exclusivity. I think of him as the Ukrainian version of Vincent or Paul Cezanne. Marriage is for normal people he might say, not for him.

I’m conscious of the clock, but I haven’t found anyone to settle down with. I wonder if I am even the marrying kind. My whole family has been wiped out by Putin’s war (or whatever he calls it in his delusions). I have no one to be my side of the synagogue! I guess I’m just lost!

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MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

You are still young. There is no rush just take things as they come.
My daughter was single at your age
Two years ago at age 33 she got married.
Recently at age 35 she found out she was expecting her first child.

Lonar2 · 26-30, F

@MrAverage1965 The talk is that the longer you put off motherhood the more likely the children might have problems. At thirty five years of age your eggs are very old and potentially there are genetic illnesses that are more likely to occur. It’s why a woman’s fertility begins early and ends in her forties or early fifties.

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

@Lonar2 I was already aware of they but thanks for telling me