Can anyone here explain it for her? Or anyone here had similar experience?

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She values the one 'who never did any of that' over the one, the incredible man, who did all of that. I'd explain the 'Incredible man' to stop being so 'incredible' .
She doesn't fear losing the 'Incredible man'. She is the star. He is her fan at most.
The 'Icredible man' fears losing her and perceives her attention as 'High Value'.

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bijouxbroussard · F

Haven’t you ever had a woman who practically broke her back trying to do for you, but you were still looking elsewhere, because she just wasn’t the one ?

Men do that all the time, so I don’t get why they don’t understand (or pretend not to) when a woman feels that way. 🥺

SilentObZerver · 26-30, M

@bijouxbroussard

I agree that men can also overlook good women. That happens.
But saying ‘men do it all the time’ doesn’t really explain what she’s feeling.

She’s not asking for justification..

she’s surprised at herself for missing the guy who didn’t do much, instead of the one who treated her incredibly well.

bijouxbroussard · F

@SilentObZerver But I’m saying it’s for similar reasons, and men rarely apologize or feel guilty for it. It’s chemistry, and it doesn’t necessarily make sense. Logic isn’t a part of it.

Gingerbreadspice · F

She’s in love with someone else is all.

SilentObZerver · 26-30, M

@Gingerbreadspice if its love,
Then that answers her questions "whats the feelings "

But she says "how does it go away"

Gingerbreadspice · F

@SilentObZerver Wants to forget the first guy but can’t. Wants to like the guy who massaged her feet but doesn’t like him as much.

Lilnonames · F

sounds like a bad habit.

SilentObZerver · 26-30, M

@Lilnonames hmmm!

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