Stop Searching for Love, Start Becoming It

We often believe we fall in love with another person. But the truth is, we fall in love with the experience that awakens within us when we are with them. It is not the person themselves, but the internal resonance the situation evoke.....the warmth, the aliveness, the expansion.

This state is not tied to any one individual. It can arise in the presence of a person, a piece of music, a sunset, or deep silence. It is not about the narrative or the external source—it is about what unfolds within you.

If you sit in deep stillness, when the mind grows quiet and you journey inward, you may discover a joy deeper than any romance.......like meeting the most important person you’d forgotten in the noise of life: yourself.

So stop looking for someone else to complete you. No one can. That power lies only with you. When you realize that love is a state of being, not a transaction or possession, you are free. And in that freedom, you become whole.

being · 36-40, F

I'd say, YES AND
meaning...yes, it is as you say and love is within me...and yes there is a whole outside world out there too, and when another is radiating love frequency next to you, it's easier on a tired moment, that you pick it up.

I am not saying it is not about us, me, the self.
I am saying it is about each one of us, and since we are plenty, we're all awaken and keen one another in sync, love one another, and free one another.