Which is more beautiful: falling in love and then marrying someone, or marrying someone and then falling in love with them?

@Bleak Is it possible to fall in love without falling too deep? Most people tumble head over heels, with logic abandoned and stars in their eyes. It often feels like there’s no speed bump, just a downhill ride until they hit the bottom.

@Renkon. Yeah, it’s possible, though not too common.
Sometimes the person who’s meant to be your soulmate is right in front of you, and you don’t even realize it at the time. You can be friends for years without once feeling that there’s anything romantic between you. Then life takes you both on different paths — you drift apart, get caught up in the hustle and bustle. But when fate brings you back together, you fall in love. It’s not a love that’s overly deep or intense, wild or overwhelming, but it’s strong enough to withstand all the differences that might come after marriage.

Though it’s very rare and may sound a bit filmy, believe me — it’s possible.

@bijouxbroussard Fair answer. But It’s becoming a pattern where people fall in love, get married, and then slowly drift apart.

@Renkon True, but getting married isn’t something one must do.

@CrazyMusicLover Is not the second option Berter for the ling run?

@lostlissa Isn’t it sad how, sometimes after marriage, people begin to take each other for granted—how love quietly gives way to expectations and demands, until the warmth fades into routine?

@SomeMichGuy That is optimistic!

@Infamous607 Just ok?