No love should be controlled by the person as each person has control,Love …that is such a powerful emotion that no one should have that power or control over you .Yes it can be shared and then it creates harmony,happiness and sexual desires for each other .

I’ll have full control of my handle and he’ll have full control of his. We can make adjustments as necessary in the pursuit of harmony.

Dunno. I'm 'long term' single so really don't know what adult romantic love is meant to feel like any more. Being introverted with social anxiety I don't know how I could ever trust a woman in a relationship any more to have genuine intentions instead of just wanting to get access to all of a man's money and resources and then getting a divorce (if married) and taking the lot - rinse and repeat.

not really

As long as it's my jug that is below the tap to capture it.

Could genuine love even be controlled?

It's called marriage

At this point; why not?