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zerozone79 · F
@thrash HHHAHAHAHAHA
SomeMichGuy · M
I don't want to be obsessive.
Ummm...you passed that long ago.
I'm glad that you've found him to be inspiring for changes which you assess as making you a better person.
However, how long as this quest been?
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zerozone79 · F
@SomeMichGuy GODDAMN. I never thought of it that way. I thank you for making me view it that way.
But, I'm wondering. Is it still “acceptable” if I'm in a situation like this, and I'm aware of it, that I'm still going to, willingly, be his “plan b”? Even if it makes me seem like a mentally ill puppy, do you think it'll be worth it? Because for me, in any circumstance, as long as he's content, it'd be worth it for me. It sounds like I'm giving up my whole love life just to be a second, third, how many numbers, choice. And even so, I'm grateful to be a choice.
But, I'm wondering. Is it still “acceptable” if I'm in a situation like this, and I'm aware of it, that I'm still going to, willingly, be his “plan b”? Even if it makes me seem like a mentally ill puppy, do you think it'll be worth it? Because for me, in any circumstance, as long as he's content, it'd be worth it for me. It sounds like I'm giving up my whole love life just to be a second, third, how many numbers, choice. And even so, I'm grateful to be a choice.
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YoMomma ·
I spent 30 years being obsessed with a guy who couldn't care less.. i don't advise the stubbornness and vanity of unrequited "love" sometimes you have to let it go and leave it alone and move on even if you don't want to.. sometimes some people are just not for you and you just have to not keep pursuing it.. sigh
Carazaa · F
YOU are more important than he is, remember to be good to yourself. A relationship is a two-way street. If you give and they don't give back, waste not another minute. Time is too important tp waste in life.