Are dating apps destroying traditional dating cultures or empowering people to find love?
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swirlie · F
Dating apps destroy traditional dating opportunities, not dating cultures!
What most men and women don't understand about dating is that dating is not like ordering something on Amazon and having it delivered to your door. But that's what those so-called dating apps are having us do. Dating apps are being used like mail-order catalogue order forms where you fill in the squares and mail it in, then wait for the appropriate amount of time to pass and maybe then something interesting might show up.
The reason dating apps don't work and never will work is because we are not attracted to a person by their 'picture' or by their vital stats written on a website.
We are attracted to a person's energy. Period.
What this means is, we MUST have face-to-face contact with a person before we can even consider dating them because without that close contact, we CANNOT sense their energy.
It is a person's energy, their aura, their soul ..that attracts us to them, not their picture! A person can look fabulous in a picture but when you stand near them, they can have really bad energy or chronically bad breath or have a personality that would sour lemons, despite their totally knock-out good looks! 🤤
What this means is, if you met someone who's personality sucked big-time but they looked like god's gift to women/men, would you date them anyway?
The answer should be a resounding NO! because their rotten personality will eventually overshadow their good looks and you will end up dumping them!
That is why you will often see very beautiful women/men, walking arm in arm with someone down the street who is butt-ugly and you cannot figure out what the heck that beautiful person saw in that old ditch pig they're walking with?
What they saw in each other was a mutually desirable energy which means their respective energies were compatible to both of them and it is their mutual energy that attracts each other TO each other, not anything physical. If you think it's physical, try dating someone who doesn't speak a word of your own language.
Not being able to communicate because of a language barrier is like dating a person who has chronically bad breath due to very poor oral hygiene. The relationship will be very short lived in either case.
That is why dating apps and dating websites don't work. You have to be in the other person's personal space for at least 4 minutes to be able to tell if you are even remotely attracted to that person or if you are compatible to them. Beautiful people might surprise you when you eventually learn how rotten their personality really is!
Always go in with a very open mind and don't EVER get involved with blind dating... unless it's only for a pre-planned 5 minute meeting where initial intros might happen!
What most men and women don't understand about dating is that dating is not like ordering something on Amazon and having it delivered to your door. But that's what those so-called dating apps are having us do. Dating apps are being used like mail-order catalogue order forms where you fill in the squares and mail it in, then wait for the appropriate amount of time to pass and maybe then something interesting might show up.
The reason dating apps don't work and never will work is because we are not attracted to a person by their 'picture' or by their vital stats written on a website.
We are attracted to a person's energy. Period.
What this means is, we MUST have face-to-face contact with a person before we can even consider dating them because without that close contact, we CANNOT sense their energy.
It is a person's energy, their aura, their soul ..that attracts us to them, not their picture! A person can look fabulous in a picture but when you stand near them, they can have really bad energy or chronically bad breath or have a personality that would sour lemons, despite their totally knock-out good looks! 🤤
What this means is, if you met someone who's personality sucked big-time but they looked like god's gift to women/men, would you date them anyway?
The answer should be a resounding NO! because their rotten personality will eventually overshadow their good looks and you will end up dumping them!
That is why you will often see very beautiful women/men, walking arm in arm with someone down the street who is butt-ugly and you cannot figure out what the heck that beautiful person saw in that old ditch pig they're walking with?
What they saw in each other was a mutually desirable energy which means their respective energies were compatible to both of them and it is their mutual energy that attracts each other TO each other, not anything physical. If you think it's physical, try dating someone who doesn't speak a word of your own language.
Not being able to communicate because of a language barrier is like dating a person who has chronically bad breath due to very poor oral hygiene. The relationship will be very short lived in either case.
That is why dating apps and dating websites don't work. You have to be in the other person's personal space for at least 4 minutes to be able to tell if you are even remotely attracted to that person or if you are compatible to them. Beautiful people might surprise you when you eventually learn how rotten their personality really is!
Always go in with a very open mind and don't EVER get involved with blind dating... unless it's only for a pre-planned 5 minute meeting where initial intros might happen!