I deserve someone who mutually values and loves me.

@ABCDEF7 maybe some don't...😆

@sahi81 Who?

@ABCDEF7 people i dislike/hate 😆

@sahi81 Just because you dislike/hate them?

There may be some people that dislike you. That doesn't means you don't deserves to be loved.

@ABCDEF7 if they dislike me, it's their problem !

@sahi81 Similarly if you don't like some it's your problem, that doesn't make them not deserving of love.

@sahi81 That is how you think.

People who dislike you also has some reason for them to dislike you.

@sahi81 That doesn't makes you different from them, you also don't feel good about yourself.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/5191445-I-feel-i-have-a-curse-of-never-feeling-good-enough-about

@ABCDEF7 i mean if they want to change... i can forgive them but they want to remain the same.

@ABCDEF7 i am trying to work on my issues... unlike them!

@sahi81 That's good you are trying to work on your issues. I can see, you are at least listening to me. Listening is first step in direction of self improvement.

That is between you and them. If you are ready to forgive them, would they be lovable for you if they turn to be better as the are now?

@ABCDEF7 yes, i forgive ppl if they change... change takes effort...

@sahi81 Do you not deserves to be loved before you make all improvements in yourself?

@ABCDEF7 i do but atleast i have to start.... and make atleast 10% improvements before involving others in my life... I don't want to hurt others by being so weak..

@ABCDEF7 think i will end up hurting myself and others if i be the same... and don't improve

@sahi81 I just mean to say, as you deserves to be loved irrespective of your weaknesses, others also deserves to be loved in spite of their problems.

@ABCDEF7 i do wish someone loves me even at my weakest stage... but no one seem to..

@sahi81 You should surely improve yourself. 👍

@ABCDEF7 yes but i too have my own life, i can't hurt myself for others who cause problems in my life. I am not allowing anyone in my life who brings nothing in my life but problems. I want someone mutually loving in my life.

@ABCDEF7 That is why I said, Everyone deserves to be loved.

@ABCDEF7 i never wanted people whom i like to sacrifice or hurt themselves for me ( unless they are ok with it)... i left from their life if i felt they will get hurt by involving with me. Never expected them to love me at their expense.

@ABCDEF7 Btw many things you said looked like ignoring red flags in name of love which i did in my past and got abused and betrayed 😆

@sahi81 I never said to ignore the red flags. But just not to make a final opinion based on something you have not yet discussed or understood them. Everyone deserves a chance. No one is perfect.