how to makeout
I've never had a relationship and my girlfriend wants to make out and I do to but I don't know how so can anyone give me good tips plz any kind of tips would help.
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hartfire · 61-69
There's a great book called "The Joy of Sex" -- probably easy to get 2nd hand online.
Every pers (man or woman) is different in their needs and preferences, so experiment with sensuality, this includes kissing, touch, give and receive, environment, etc:
eg lightness/firmness, smoothness, rhythm, etc -- see, feel, hear and scent how she responds.
Ask her what she likes, what she fantasizes about - feel into yourself about whether you could role play. Ask her to pleasure herself so you can see how she does it, and do the same to yourself for her. Sometimes agreed verbal or hpysical cues are a good idea, like a tap to say stop, a push to say gentler, please ease off at that place there, or a pull to ask for firmer or more passionate . Good communication from the outset is important - keep it simple - the erotic state can't handle complex language or concepts. Do verbally and in actions express your love, your enjoyment of her beauty and all her other attractions. Bring all your awareness to both your partner and yourself within the present moment.
Every pers (man or woman) is different in their needs and preferences, so experiment with sensuality, this includes kissing, touch, give and receive, environment, etc:
eg lightness/firmness, smoothness, rhythm, etc -- see, feel, hear and scent how she responds.
Ask her what she likes, what she fantasizes about - feel into yourself about whether you could role play. Ask her to pleasure herself so you can see how she does it, and do the same to yourself for her. Sometimes agreed verbal or hpysical cues are a good idea, like a tap to say stop, a push to say gentler, please ease off at that place there, or a pull to ask for firmer or more passionate . Good communication from the outset is important - keep it simple - the erotic state can't handle complex language or concepts. Do verbally and in actions express your love, your enjoyment of her beauty and all her other attractions. Bring all your awareness to both your partner and yourself within the present moment.