I love you more dear 💞

Why does it seem like all i see are normal people with relationships and they seem so happy together. What is so different about me.

I would have been this guy to you four years ago

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hartfire

Two out every 3 marriages end in divorce.
Many relationships break before they get to the marriage stage.
What you see in public is usually the public persona, not showing the quarrels or issues.

All relationships take work and learning,
and it doesn't happen just by waiting for something to go wrong and then trying to fix it.
It happens by researching, studying and practising the skills of developing self insight, self responsibility, understanding and respect for boundaries, listening and communication skills, and win-win creative conflict resolution skills.
All the info can be found free online.

It helps to work on oneself to become a person who is able to be good in a relationship.
And it helps to learn how to recognise someone who is a good long term prospect.
It's worth being proactive searching for him/her, and not worth settling for less.