Eye contact & deciphering what they are saying is No.1 communication tool… reading body language is only possible when tied in with the eyes sentiment… the unheard tells so much..
@Soossie why thanks…. In both work & personal encounters… I practice as much as I can to find the extra signals… & of course we all know how great it is to be in tune in intimate encounters…
They say windows to the soul but there's a little more to know.
Cast not the speck from another said lord. Not without considering the beam in yours.
For perception within the minds eye, a slight contact or gaze, whether many adored in so many a doors. How many practice and easily lie would likely amaze.
The only true test is time and place, in the finality of too much forgiveness for excessively imagined grace.
But that still doesn't solve the biggest mystery which is this. Why do us men always reason that beauty and goodness are such close cousins when actually, that's not at all the case?
I can understand why you don’t … but I’m sure when the right person comes along, you’ll find it very easy to look them in the eye and let them know the content of your heart .. 🌹
I don't understand a dang thing from eyes. I see them more as just a physical part of the body, like a nose or an ear. They are just there as a sensory organ. They are for seeing.
There a saying that goes that the eyes are the windows to the soul. Yeah, I get nothing. It's just nerves connected to the brain at the back of the eye. There's no supernatural connection, or mind reading going on.
To me eye contact just means eye contact. 🤷🏻♀️ It doesn't necessarily tell me anything that they are thinking or feeling Better to let a person's words and body language do the talking then think my intuition is strong enough to know what this look is really saying vs a different look. In fact I'd wager people tend to be more wrong then right if a scientific test was done and people had to choose an emotion to go with a photo of someone's eyes.
I think people are storytellers at heart and like to pretend a look means something vs another. But I think people get more cues from facial and body language then eyes.
Or I could just be entirely incapable of reading eye contact as anything more then eye contact. And it's a social cue that I just don't get. 🤷🏻♀️. After all isn't that why long stares feel the most uncomfortable, because you can't read eyes? Idk
@Soossie Ahh, one of the softest moments.... just as falling asleep gazing and endeared.... *doesn't have to be quiet with voice there either, but those in love know when the other felt when their eyes closed*.... 🌹