i have some questions, pls answer 🧍

so here it is,

1. say, you and someone of the opposite gender is in a room where there's only the two of you. and you were close with eachother. then at a moment, they helped you adjust your blazer and nametags. what would you feel?

2. can you guys tell me how you fell for someone?

3. what is the thought process of a man when they're falling in love? like what are the stages do they go through before finding out, "oh, i'm in love with her"

4. wait last one, how do you know if a guy likes you just as a friend or more than that

that's all 🧍

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novaguy2u · 70-79, M

Four questions. Interesting.
1. It may or not mean anything. If they are a workmate, it may simply be that they want you to look your best. Alternatively, they may feel an attraction and are seeking to see if it is reciprocated.
2. I have fallen for many. Sometimes it can occur within hours of meeting a person. On other occasions it may take weeks or months before "like" becomes "love".
3. See 2 above. In the first instance, it can be a sudden, blinding realisation. Otherwise it may start as a simple, non-sexual attraction, as in beginning a friendship, then it progresses to a strong attraction, possibly with thoughts or dreams of a sexual nature, until finally you realise that you are in love.
4. Only time will tell if a person wants you as a friend, a friend with benefits, or a long-term lover..