I don’t want anybody to be there when I get married and I feel like that’s normal even though it seems uncommon.

I’d want to have a party after with family + close friends + a photographer, but not really a big one. For the ceremony itself I just want me, my partner and the person conducting it. If I get married it’s not gonna be for show, it’s for the act itself. I don’t care about putting on for family and friends like that. Maybe it’s odd but maybe if more people thought like that we wouldn’t have 50% of marriages ending in divorce.