Husbands would you do this?

No been in that situation she even tried to break up the marriage with lies . She told my then wife that her and I were having an affair and told a close family friend that if we split she would happily have me live with her . When I heard I cut her off then and there and told her never to contact any of us again .

I actually would have to end that relationship. Because my heart and my love and loyalty are to my wife who I am very much in love with. So yes i would not stay friends with any other woman who told me that she was in love with me especially knowing that I was married.

Wouldn't be an issue

Not a smart move. Unhealthy for the marriage.

Probably, but I'm ethicly non monogamous.

nah.
life is complicated enough

Sounds like trouble.

I know that I would

As a wife, my husband knows that there are friends within our group that still love me, and he's ok with that, because he trusts I love him.