A lot of introspection about how you’ve interacted with others. Frankly if the general opinion is universally against you, the problem may well be you.
Are you honest? Do you care about others? Do you use others? Are you the sort of person who is lovable?
I would work on myself, become more lovable. That would mean developing empathy and excellent listening skills, being helpful whenever the opportunity arises, offering what others say they need not what I think they need, finding those who share values and interests in common, make and effort to get out and practice being social.
Fortunately, I feel well loved and enjoy loving.
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What I did for a while, loving myself and treating myself right. Becoming best friends with my loneliness
@SW-User Oooops. My bad. I assumed and didn't see it. Time to delete that. Thanks for letting me know.
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“You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.” Saint Matthew 22, 37-40
If you really love yourself, you Love God as well and others too. You just need to love whom your heart guides you to love.
If you love a woman and she doesn't love you back you may suffer but you will feel motivated and your life will change. You will know much more about yourself, what you like and who you really are, I believe we know ourselves by learning about the one we love, we develop empathy for others because we will the good of someone, therefore it is easy to will the good of everyone, which is true Charity.
When we love truly, we can experience all our free-flowing, mood state, and intense emotions (including fear, rage, hatred, grief, and shame)
Someone once showed me a video on this website: [media=https://youtu.be/WnOQ1VV3CqU]
