Why is it so hard to find love?

Finding someone who communication style and needs are compatible with yours is tricky. Some people, especially if they’re in the ‘dating, but not serious yet or not looking to make it serious’ are fine with communicating once every few days or even once a week. Other than letting them know you’d like to talk more often, it’s kinda a ‘people are who they are’ long-term, trait things.
Lots of people out there do want to catch up once a day or every other day more regularly. You don’t need to settle. Even if they’re genuinely so busy that you guys barely talk/have time for each other and this bums you out —that’s a cue their lifestyle isn’t going to be compatible with your needs and be an ongoing problem where the only solution would be one of you sacrificing who you are to appease the other..

I dunno about the ‘not talking to me, but posting on their feed’ thing though. I feel like with all the ways we can instantly talk to each other no matter where we are or what we’re doing and the ability to observe each other, people forget it’s healthy to not feel like talking to someone and be be doing other things.