Why is it so hard to find love?

I get that some people work odd hours, and there are some that chose to remain single.
But the lack of effort is ridiculous.
I don't really get it anymore.
Am I weird for finding 3 days of no communication odd in an era of mobile phones. Social media, instant messaging!

It's it weird that you don't respond to messages but you share reels on my socials...

I'd it weird that it took you 6 months to realise that I wasn't a bad person?

And the current one that filled your space is now fading me out?

Maybe I'm stuck in the 90s way of dating.
Coz all these modern rules are causing me massive amounts of headaches and disappointment!