I wish that I do not have this constant longing to want to find a life partner.It will make things so much easier.I can't help the way I feel though.馃槶
[c=BF0080]I used to be the same. Like codependent on someone who maybe doesn鈥檛 even exist. It took about 3-4 months of convincing myself that nobody was coming and I had no control over if anyone liked me or not. Help was not on the way. It broke me for awhile but now I鈥檓 good. I still hope someone will love me one day, but for now I like me and enjoy life on my own.[/c]
Been there before and I鈥檓 sort of there now. Happy to be single but wondering if I will ever really be loved by someone I love too. Who knows? There is a nagging longing there that i wish I didn鈥檛 have but i guess it鈥檚 normal human stuff. But take it from me, this is so much better than being in a bad relationship. Take your time. It鈥檚 OK.
It seems that fate provides you with someone at the most unexpected times. Put yourself out there looking for nothing and see what happens. That came out of a fortune cookie btw. 馃槈
SW-User
It's only natural, and I feel for you.
I struggled with the same issue until about 55 or so... Then I realised how much better off I was alone, but that's just speaking for myself.