My ex boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me any more...

I totally, totally, totally get it...but it still hurts a little.. It's okay. Everything was good between us (well seemingly so) but I just run away. He's right..

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SlippingAway · 46-50, F

I don't want to talk to my ex either I think it's just sometimes the best way to heal and move on. I'm sorry I know it hurts but it's probably what's best for both of you

Sepia · 36-40, F

Then don’t talk to him ever at all. You will learn from how he treated you…

I would never want to talk to my ex tho I have plenty of reasons (papers, documents) that he has hold until now. I no longer gave him even the privilege of speaking to me…all I do is hire a middle man to transact with him in my behalf. Voice free, Out of sight. I don’t even want to see him.

Pfuzylogic · M

You needed this time for exploration and rest. Some things we do solitary. Relationships come from an agreement of free spirits.

You deserve the best! 🤗

SW-User

@Pfuzylogic nicely said...yet I can understand his position.
I'll continue and I'll do me.... and let him the space to do himself..

Unlearn · 41-45, M

One can't run away and expect things to be like before...

SW-User

@Unlearn i definitely know

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User good...

ABCDEF7 · M

Friendship is about helping your friend to become a better human.

SW-User

@ABCDEF7 okay sounds nice, I'll try a little more if I can...

ABCDEF7 · M

@SW-User It works both ways.

NeoNeo · 46-50, M

Give it some time

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NeoNeo · 46-50, M

@SW-User You need some distraction. There are things you can't change and it's better if you don't try to.. You can think about better times and more important things 🤗

SW-User

@NeoNeo yes, thank you. It's definitely that, I need to stir away from things i cannot change and yet affect me like that. Thank you for helping me clearing this out. By no means i am heartless towards him. Yet I owe to equally not be hurtful towards myself ..

NeoNeo · 46-50, M

@SW-User That's the idea of realization that You exist and that's more important than anything else ☺️ You owe it to yourself

scorpio611 · 46-50, M

He ain’t worth.

checkoutanytime · 46-50, M

Why do women go for control freaks? Is why i cant stand talking to my daughter's mom anymore, when my daughter's need to heal, from her wild times.

SW-User

@checkoutanytime I wouldn't call him a control freak ..i find it natural to mourn for one's loss.. he was happy being with me and he's having a difficult moment now, coping with me being absent, gone.. he's stayed behind, living in the room we used to share now by himself. His reactions seem normal to me, yet I can't stay at the position he's sending his anger arrows at...
I'm sorry about your story though, it seems it has been quite hurtful..

checkoutanytime · 46-50, M

@SW-User you know whats best for you. Sounds like he cares, in a way i can relate, for me kids are involved.

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