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Just felt like re-sharing this.

To all of you with a broken heart, those of you who find it difficult to make it through the day, those of you who are in pain, those who cant picture happiness ever again..... I just want to tell you, keep your chin up. It may feel like the worst while you are going through your pain, life seems to drag you down, and it never seems to get better... I have been there too, I started on EP because of a broken heart, that shattered my world.

It was tough, it was a struggle to find the motivation to do anything. I realized that i needed to make a change, and that is precisely what I did. Once I got out and reintroduced myself to the world, something beautiful happened... The most remarkable ability that we as humans possess is the ability to forget. Yes, we remember the pain, but we do not relive the feelings... We can remember the depression, but we never grasp the duration of the hardship... Once we are healed, we can look back, it makes the rough times easier, and we are able to look back and process and learn from our experiences.

I was crushed once, probably worse than most of you reading this right now. I thought my sky was never going to be blue again. I thought there was nothing left for me. But then the clouds cleared, and I was able to see the truth through the rain. My depression was bad yes, but through my struggles, i am a better person today.

When I look back now, the pain and hurt i was feeling never seems to match or can i even fathom what i was experiencing at ground zero. I believe in all of you, regardless of your situation. You hold the keys to your happiness, it maybe tuff, but it is on you to pull yourself out of this funk. Find something you love and devote yourself to it. Through new passions will bring new light through the clouds.... And remember, flowers never fully bloom until they had a little rain.

There are plenty on here that are willing to lend and ear if you need it, including myself.
"If it's gonna be, it's up to me." We have more power than we give ourselves credit for. We were made with great resiliency and perseverance. We just have to decide we're going to exercise them. "Things" don't have power over us, unless we give it to them. We know right from wrong and that is where are power comes into play. Nobody and "nothing" makes us do anything.
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
Precisely, there is nothing I can say or do that will convince anyone to make the step to better themselves, however once someone decides to make that step there are plenty available to assist in that journey. Once I realized this, I knew it was on me… my friends gave me initial support, but that reduces with time, the world moves on with or without participation… I chose to participate @LadyGrace
Some of us do relive the feelings, emotions, and over time they lessen, or harm us further. Life is complicated, people are complicated, but the message you mean is well received.
SW-User
It's a nice thought and while I think we never forget certain people, we are able to continue with our life and yes we're responsible for ourselves 💛
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
This just isn’t the right mindset for a turn around. You need to look at your self and figure out what it is you want that is good. There is nothing I can say here to change your mindset… that’s on you. Only you can look at things more positively @Jackaloftheazuresand
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
@Tryingtofindabalance This is positive. When all life embraces the end there will be universal peace
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
I think most adults realize the end is inevitable, most choose not to embrace or celebrate the idea… mostly because people enjoy life, or at least like the idea of what it gives @Jackaloftheazuresand

 
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