What's love mean today?
For starters...
Love today, means:
"What can that person DO for me?"
"I wonder how I can USE him/her to my advantage? And for how long?"
Me, me, me! "What's in it for ME?"
"Can I live off this person? Hope so!"
It's all pure selfishness. I'm so sick of hearing the term, "fwb", I could puke.
Yes....let's all just USE one another. It's certainly not LOVE; and nothing but LUST! One can't even go on a first date anymore, without the other person EXPECTING sex! REALLY??!!! Like, "I don't KNOW you, but let's hop into bed!" How stupid and sad, to try each other out, then move on to the next person! DO YOU not have more love and respect about yourself, than to stoop that low? That's just sick. LUST is not LOVE. Some people don't understand that. This world has turned into unfeeling machines, certainly not behaving like decent human beings! Nor TREATING each other like human beings deserve to be treated. People don't even know what love is anymore. They only know how to use each other. The word "love" is used as a manipulative tool and that's it.
"Love" today is much too easy. And that's why it means nothing anymore. Too many have the feeling that all you have to do is mention the word "love" to someone and WHOOF!, like magic...they'll do anything you want! And shame on those who fall for and accept that as "normal"!
And don't forget! Just message someone and it only takes a few sentences for them to start in with the sex chat crap! Some people have no morals, decency, integrity, or respect about themselves. They think that's funny, but it's really sad they would stoop that low or marry someone just for what that person can do for them. There's no love THERE. Just lust. No communication between the two, no respect, no honesty, no trust, no commitment = NO RELATIONSHIP! And hey! If you don't like that person after a month or two, why, you can just leave that person in a heartbeat and hook up with another. How pathetic these losers are. That goes for either sex that stoops to that. To me, that's the definition of a real low-life, loser jerk!
So when you mention the word LOVE these days, I can only scratch my head and say, "What's THAT!!???" This is FAR from the way God meant relationships to be. And victims and children end up paying the price for it. This country desperately needs prayer.
https://similarworlds.com/relationships/marriage/4430291-Does-your-marriage-need-healing-Dont-give-up-too
Love today, means:
"What can that person DO for me?"
"I wonder how I can USE him/her to my advantage? And for how long?"
Me, me, me! "What's in it for ME?"
"Can I live off this person? Hope so!"
It's all pure selfishness. I'm so sick of hearing the term, "fwb", I could puke.
Yes....let's all just USE one another. It's certainly not LOVE; and nothing but LUST! One can't even go on a first date anymore, without the other person EXPECTING sex! REALLY??!!! Like, "I don't KNOW you, but let's hop into bed!" How stupid and sad, to try each other out, then move on to the next person! DO YOU not have more love and respect about yourself, than to stoop that low? That's just sick. LUST is not LOVE. Some people don't understand that. This world has turned into unfeeling machines, certainly not behaving like decent human beings! Nor TREATING each other like human beings deserve to be treated. People don't even know what love is anymore. They only know how to use each other. The word "love" is used as a manipulative tool and that's it.
"Love" today is much too easy. And that's why it means nothing anymore. Too many have the feeling that all you have to do is mention the word "love" to someone and WHOOF!, like magic...they'll do anything you want! And shame on those who fall for and accept that as "normal"!
And don't forget! Just message someone and it only takes a few sentences for them to start in with the sex chat crap! Some people have no morals, decency, integrity, or respect about themselves. They think that's funny, but it's really sad they would stoop that low or marry someone just for what that person can do for them. There's no love THERE. Just lust. No communication between the two, no respect, no honesty, no trust, no commitment = NO RELATIONSHIP! And hey! If you don't like that person after a month or two, why, you can just leave that person in a heartbeat and hook up with another. How pathetic these losers are. That goes for either sex that stoops to that. To me, that's the definition of a real low-life, loser jerk!
So when you mention the word LOVE these days, I can only scratch my head and say, "What's THAT!!???" This is FAR from the way God meant relationships to be. And victims and children end up paying the price for it. This country desperately needs prayer.
https://similarworlds.com/relationships/marriage/4430291-Does-your-marriage-need-healing-Dont-give-up-too
