what is your love style?
https://howwelove.com/love-styles/
https://howwelove.com/love-styles/
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yo heaven, we are super alike in our love style 😅
@deathfairy very. love ya, girl. 🖤🤗
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
you are pretty evened out on almost all of the categories. wow. 💜@DeluxedEdition
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@deathfairy I thought that was very odd. But I actually took the time to read them all and I must say it’s very accurate… and sad. But I’m glad I found this test because I did read something that I felt like I needed to see
i didn’t read them all but i am really happy it have you a perspective on something that you connected with. that is awesome. i plan to continue looking into these parts. girl, you have been through a shit ton, i am proud of you and hope you find what you need to heal and be your true happy place. 💜 @DeluxedEdition
@deathfairy yeah, I learned a lot. One thing mentioned by a Couple of my previous partners is that they don’t know what’s going on. “ we were doing so well, and now I’m confused and don’t know what’s going on.” And I would be like “I don’t either”. It’s so weird, I’d be in love and head over heels for them one minute and then want nothing to do with them the next. Which I know is really hard for whoever my partner is to be in a relationship where you feel so loved and then neglected and nothing you can do help.
The expectations were interesting and relatable. And helped me have a more clear understanding on why I’m so hot and cold in relationships.
To have the” ideal” relationship (then it would be pain free). Highly sensitive, craves attention. Mistakes intensity for intimacy. Devalues when disappointed and the intense “good” feelings are gone.
Any form of disappointment immediately leads to a mood change for me in my partner. Which is scary because people aren’t perfect but in my mind I have this idea of a perfect relationship and if it’s not them that’s a risk of being let down and hurt. Aka as abandonment issues so I lose interest and check out of the relationship. This makes sense when it comes to the confusion for me on certain relationships I had.
The expectations were interesting and relatable. And helped me have a more clear understanding on why I’m so hot and cold in relationships.
To have the” ideal” relationship (then it would be pain free). Highly sensitive, craves attention. Mistakes intensity for intimacy. Devalues when disappointed and the intense “good” feelings are gone.
Any form of disappointment immediately leads to a mood change for me in my partner. Which is scary because people aren’t perfect but in my mind I have this idea of a perfect relationship and if it’s not them that’s a risk of being let down and hurt. Aka as abandonment issues so I lose interest and check out of the relationship. This makes sense when it comes to the confusion for me on certain relationships I had.
@deathfairy You’re so smart too girl ! ❤️🥰 this was a really cool and informative topic. It’s nice you’re attempting to help people become more self aware on how they love.
Through these discoveries and self awareness we’re able to work towards healing and being better for ourselves and the people we love. 🤗
Through these discoveries and self awareness we’re able to work towards healing and being better for ourselves and the people we love. 🤗
Elessar · 31-35, M
@deathfairy Is the Avoider the one that ends up living alone on the top of a mountain with at most the company of cats? If so I don't even need to take the test, I'm most likely that 🥴
okay, then you won’t know if you don’t do the quiz ig. @Ihopetolivehappily
@deathfairy I hurts to answer the quiz when you're never been in a relationship.
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@deathfairy neither was I. I'd be curious to know what gives you that impression though.
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@deathfairy fair enough.
summersong · F
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@deathfairy I didn’t come out of it looking very good 😂
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
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@deathfairy You're not annoyed. This is disappointing. Until next time enemy! We shall meet again! 🗡️
Viper · M
The pleaser
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Viper · M
@deathfairy is that a good thing?
i don’t know. you know better than me. @Viper
Viper · M
@deathfairy yup, it's nice being an 11 ;)
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The Avoider
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
The Pleaser. 🤔
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
Vacillator is what it told me but I think it's kinda bullshit because I've endevoured to a huge extent realizing the way dad treated mom was NOT normal and to NOT live up to his example.
My own mother gets jealous when I talk about me and Lyssa I'm like bar none us meeting each other has been the best thing that ever happened to me.
it would probably be more so had it been the opposite sex parent but it was my dad and honestly he never did get it and was always an angry grumpy old man who endevoured to be that way like he was proud of it at that point and we fought like crazy like not often but we did get into outright fist fights at times and then he upped and croaked in 2019 having been TOLD outright to just be NICE to me and I will usually follow directions and never even bothering to try because he was too much a miserable shit to do that much.
he was outright shoving pills down moms throat and a control freak and along with HIS abuse of her and the fact that I KEPT making female friends but they kept DISAPPEARING because the MAN they got with Thought Anyone with a DICK was trying to STEAL them.
made me burn with a passionate hatred of Controlling men and endevouring with everything inm e NOT to be like them like for the love of god if I ever need to see your phone JUST IN CASE y ou're cheating on me RUN, DUMP ME PLEASE. I Don't EVER WANT TO BE THAT GUY.
But me and mom have always been close. it's been healthier..
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you know I didn't even give a shit about his feelings except for the fact that he couldn't have them at less than loud enough to wake the dead and for hours on end.
My own mother gets jealous when I talk about me and Lyssa I'm like bar none us meeting each other has been the best thing that ever happened to me.
it would probably be more so had it been the opposite sex parent but it was my dad and honestly he never did get it and was always an angry grumpy old man who endevoured to be that way like he was proud of it at that point and we fought like crazy like not often but we did get into outright fist fights at times and then he upped and croaked in 2019 having been TOLD outright to just be NICE to me and I will usually follow directions and never even bothering to try because he was too much a miserable shit to do that much.
he was outright shoving pills down moms throat and a control freak and along with HIS abuse of her and the fact that I KEPT making female friends but they kept DISAPPEARING because the MAN they got with Thought Anyone with a DICK was trying to STEAL them.
made me burn with a passionate hatred of Controlling men and endevouring with everything inm e NOT to be like them like for the love of god if I ever need to see your phone JUST IN CASE y ou're cheating on me RUN, DUMP ME PLEASE. I Don't EVER WANT TO BE THAT GUY.
But me and mom have always been close. it's been healthier..
[media=https://youtu.be/Jnq9wPDoDKg]
you know I didn't even give a shit about his feelings except for the fact that he couldn't have them at less than loud enough to wake the dead and for hours on end.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`ll do this later when I have time. Don`t wanna get poofed. ;)
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
i want to read up on those. did you find it accurate? @Justenjoyit
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@deathfairy I think i like to live and let live but dont attack me or I will defend. I like helping people more than not helping.
wackidywack · 26-30
lmaooo. did you even do the quiz?? they have all the faces on the front page. @empanadas