Ill husband

Over the last few months my husband has not been well and has been in and out of hospital a few times and endless appointments at the doctors, He has good days and bad days but it’s very concerning especially at his age, he is 77 I’m 38 and you just never know when the unthinkable will happen. Hopefully he will make a full recover. I will always be here for him and my love for him will never waiver no matter how bad this gets,

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Randie · 61-69, T

Thoughts are with you.
I am 61 and have been disabled since just before I turned 50. I had my first stroke after bypass surgery. I have since had several strokes and learned last month the other side of my heart is diseased beyond repair. I could be gone at anytime or I could live another 20 years with a bunchofmeds, there is no telling. I can't survive on my own and my wife refuses to check me into a care facility. I have told her she has more life to live and I would have no bad feelings if she moved on. I feel horrible that she has been stuck talking care of me.

su4old · 41-45, C

I don’t think you should feel horrible, my hubby feels the same way but In the marriage vows it says in sickness and in health and i intend to honour them as I love my husband so much, does your wife feel the same?@Randie

Randie · 61-69, T

My wife is there for me no matter what. I love her with all my heart. We have three wonderful children and 8 grandchildren.