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cheating question

Why is it wrong to cheat on your partner if you keep it secret and it;'s only a one night stand, and you still love your partner???
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Candie · F
you could catch a disease, you could create a stalker, or someone who would want to harm your partner, she could go blabbing and ruin your reputation or your partnership, you could get them pregnant, not to mention having to keep it a secret forever and the possible guilt or admission that could destroy the relationships trust forever
pinkie · 51-55, M
@Candie 🤩
@Candie But i s it wrong ?
Candie · F
@Phantome if you promised you wouldn't yes
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@Candie unless you expressly negotiated polyamory in this country you'd better fucking ASSUME if someone calls themselves your boyfriend/girlfriend that they're going TO EXPECT fidelity.
@PDXNative1986 but is it wrong ?
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@Phantome It involves dishonesty and therefore yes.
@Candie But is it wrong ? to cheat ?
@PDXNative1986 Why is it dishonest? Could it be natural ?
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@Phantome You know the part I think is strange is you have to ask this question you have to ask about keeping it a secret and then follow up with this,you already know it's wrong, you're just looking for other people's permission.

I mean yeah human nature might want to roam but if that's what you want then just tell the and don't sit around pretending that you really ideally want to be tied down or on the relationship escalator, Honesty pays off , one of the key reasons we live in a country where the divorce rates are so high is men and women talk "To eachother" but not really, not truthfully.
@PDXNative1986 lol, you are so wrong about me. I already don't think it's wrong. I'm not looking for permission, as I cheat all the time. I was wondering how others felt about it. Please don't assume anything from questions