SinlessOnslaught · M
I didn't know this kind of expectation existed
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@SinlessOnslaught Yeah, to be real, I disappointed a lot of people with the late replies. But I still like using my time as I wish it.
People ought to know the value of time. If someone gives it to you, then they see something worth it.
But if they don't, it doesn't lessen your worth. It is just that those people have other priorities, things they value. And the least you can do for you and them is let them choose what they need to.
The freest and healthiest relationship for me right now is someone who would offer a shoulder when I call it, but who would let me be when I need to be. Someone who will make sure I do not feel alone, seat or walk with me in the quiet, and make a noise when it matters. Someone who would let me choose myself, support that and see that as most important. Not demanding but supportive and would let me grow.
That is the breath of fresh air I maybe in need of to be honest.
Because the thing I do not have as I have tried to explain to one of those people who got offended...is the choice to use my time as I wish in the real world.
People ought to know the value of time. If someone gives it to you, then they see something worth it.
But if they don't, it doesn't lessen your worth. It is just that those people have other priorities, things they value. And the least you can do for you and them is let them choose what they need to.
The freest and healthiest relationship for me right now is someone who would offer a shoulder when I call it, but who would let me be when I need to be. Someone who will make sure I do not feel alone, seat or walk with me in the quiet, and make a noise when it matters. Someone who would let me choose myself, support that and see that as most important. Not demanding but supportive and would let me grow.
That is the breath of fresh air I maybe in need of to be honest.
Because the thing I do not have as I have tried to explain to one of those people who got offended...is the choice to use my time as I wish in the real world.
