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diablesse · 56-60, F
Kat, aren't you idealizing the past? You were unhappy with him which is why you left him. Leave him in the past where he belongs and look ahead. You deserve so much more than he gave you.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@diablesse I completely agree, dia.
SmartKat · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion I’m working on getting myself back into a frame of mind that other people like. I just made a list of things I’m grateful for. I promise I’ll be back to normal soon.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SmartKat Don't worry what other people LIKE, Kat. You must live YOUR life. I don't want you to waste your life. You have many years left on this vast earth. I want you to FIND and to ENJOY and to BATHE in the love of a man that truly loves you, precious you. Counting your blessings is good. Think of all the qualities you want in a love, and then you will know-especially if you write them down so you can refer to them. Do not forget to list your fine qualities. Normal is a setting on a washer and dryer. You be you. Live. Learn. Grow. We just want you to be happy. I can speak for dia on this too.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@SmartKat You just be you. That is who you are. No pretending. No hiding. And you know unless you change how you think about the past, you will never leave it behind and move forward. Those are facts, Kat.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@diablesse dia, come find me tomorrow. I want to talk to you, please. I will be around in the afternoon. I miss you. xxxxx
diablesse · 56-60, F
@PoetryNEmotion Poe, your afternoon is usually my night. I will stay on as late as I can.