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I wish there was one thing I could do to make someone care about me.

If you cry, they laugh.
If you try, they resist.
If you give, they take.
If you cut, they think you’re insane.
If you laugh, they treat you like a child.
If you scream, they think you’re violent.
If you do your own thing, treat others well and take care of yourself, they use you.

If I’m me, I’m obviously unloveable.

I wish I could be someone better for my son’s sake. But it’s been so long and I’m so tired now. Rest and help are not coming. I’m falling apart and nobody will even hug me.

Just watch. Lurk. Do nothing.
EditaPaperCom · 41-45, M
It can be difficult and frustrating to feel like you're putting in effort to connect with others and be loved, but not seeing the results you want. It's important to remember that you are worthy of love and care, and that there are many different ways to build meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

One thing you can do is to focus on building healthy, supportive relationships with people who are willing to be there for you. This can include friends, family members, or even a therapist or support group. It's okay to take some time to evaluate who in your life is truly supportive and caring, and to distance yourself from those who are not.

Another important aspect of building healthy relationships is learning how to communicate effectively. This includes being open and honest about your feelings and needs, as well as being a good listener. It's also important to be mindful of how your words and actions may be affecting those around you, and to try to be understanding and empathetic towards others.

It's also important to take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. This can include things like getting enough rest, exercising regularly, eating a healthy diet, and finding activities that bring you joy and relaxation. By taking care of yourself, you can be in a better position to support and connect with others.

It's understandable to feel discouraged or disillusioned when you feel like you're not being seen or valued by others. It's important to remember that building relationships takes time and effort, and it's okay to take breaks or seek support when you need it. Keep working on building healthy relationships, and don't be afraid to seek help if you're struggling.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
Love yourself. Be the warrior in this one. Help yourself. It gets better. I've been there.
@Casheyane ffs I do love myself. I quit
gdon39 · 46-50, M
I’m right here. I want to talk with you and don’t you dare deny your need to chat with another and I’m the other. I’m gary
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I don't know you much, but I care.
I hope you stop hurting and find someone who'll treat you like a queen
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry you have been treated this way. You deserve so much more 💞.

 
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