I often think about the different characters I play in everyone’s story.
I’m a villain in some.
A hero in others.
And none of it has anything to do with the person I really am 💖.
The lens that others view through is coloured by their upbringing, beliefs, and individual experiences.
Some people will see your bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying and won’t want to be around you.
Some people will think you’re weak and emotional and others will feel safe to be themselves around you because you’re not afraid to let your guard down.
Some people will think you’re rude and selfish and others will respect the way you stand up for yourself and others.
Some people will admire the way you take pride in the way you look and others will think you’re conceited and self-centred.
And NONE of it has to do with who YOU really are.
So I’ve stopped trying to control the way others see me, because I can’t. I realize that I have no authority over how other people view me so I might as well just get on with living my most authentic and joyful life.
If you want to be part of my story then you will be but if you don’t then that’s fine too 💖.
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SW-User
Great post and you look lovely there. Yeah everyone will see us in different ways
