How do guys express sympathy to other guys?

My hubby once gave a card to another guy to express gratitude and he got made fun of by his guy friends.

Now one of his BFFS just got out of surgery and he would like to send something but is gun shy bc of the last experience.

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

To actually know what your friend actually likes.

If you don't know him... well then you're not his friend. You're an acquaintance.

This generalization of gift ideas causes more problems than it's worth is the point. If you don't know them don't bother. If you're uncertain, then get to know them. Not just give a generally accepted gift.

I've actually knew a woman that hated flowers! Same with chocolate.