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Sure, you’re free to love whom and what you want.

You’re just sometimes not able to act on it without crushing others, breaking promises, trashing the lives of others. Statistics say people who ditched a spouse and family for “love” and marry the person they thought they loved and thought that other person loved them do not stay married long. The divorce rate is higher for second marriage.

Love and infatuation are not the same thing.
Reject · 31-35, M
@Mamapolo2016 Where is all of this coming from? It sounds like you’re airing out a lot of dirty laundry that doesn’t have anything to do with my post.
@Reject No personal laundry. You made sweeping statements about having rights to be happy.
Reject · 31-35, M
@Mamapolo2016 You don’t have to agree with it. It’s just something I wrote to myself as it helps me always love.

😌🕊🙏🏼
Boeing · 36-40
you're developing into a writer..:)
When you say “free to love” as having the ability to… then yes, we are free to do so.
When when you say free as always having the choice to do it, to express it, that’s a different story. And we don’t always have that free to express it.
Reject · 31-35, M
@CookieCrumbs You are always free if you believe you are. However, the brain is very good at convincing you otherwise. It can put a stopper on all forms of love. So yes, many feel as though they cannot make the choice to love. I believe they could, if they would only get their brain to step out of the way. When I prefaced with “illusions” that was me calling out the definitions your brain likes to hold onto.
GoFish ·
nah there is good and evil to many degrees
Reject · 31-35, M
@GoFish If you believe so, then it is true.
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
Sometimes we aren’t always free to love, times where we want to show and give our love to another but can’t. Sometimes its not that we believe it’s unworthy but instead we believe it is ourselves that are not good enough and are worthy to give or show our love to another.
Reject · 31-35, M
@NewBeginnings7790 The idea of this post applies to everything. Including your relationship with yourself. Actually, that’s what inspired the writing for me.
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
@Reject I understand but it’s hard to begin to believe in yourself and learn to love yourself when you have never felt truly accepted or loved.
Reject · 31-35, M
@NewBeginnings7790 The problem with that is, if you think hard enough. There’s never a reason to feel accepted or loved. Your brain can always justify whatever your feelings are.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
You know nothing about me :)
hunkalove · 70-79, M
There is no such thing as free will. We are all victims of our Karma. There are always choices.
Reject · 31-35, M
@hunkalove Can’t you love the karma?

 
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