I want someone that won’t want to change my lifestyle and get me angry that I want to hit him and accept me for me not change me

And make what he considers his type of woman, I want a guy that cleans up my messes and takes care of me yes I will eat healthy based on my choices not what he tells me to eat and Alex does none of this and doesn’t stop doing these things after we’re married, and have kids , I will change my life because I chose it and he wants to support me without encouraging me, and won’t ever cheat