I think extreme bdsm is sickening and wrong.

I just can’t fathom why someone would get off on sexual violence. To me that’s a sign of disturbed psyche. Calling out sexual violence even when it’s considered “ consensual” makes you apparently a kink shamer and somehow you’re a bad person for not respecting ritualized abuse. And these people claim it’s just like being lgbtqia+ ( historically oppressed gender and sexual minorities) and that their sick “fetishes” are discriminated against. Actually I’m glad people still think beating someone up as a sexual turn on is fucked up. Or eating shit is disgusting and can make you die. Personally I think that these kinks are not harmless but are a result of severe mental problems and negative experiences. ( I am mentally ill person too.) it’s not like someone having a foot or leg fetish which is harmless. And I think violent pornography is to blame partially and partially the world became too accepting of sick shit. ( no pun intended)