Why is it a lot of Doms and subs need more that just each other

I prefer not to muddy the waters by having too many Doms/subs in the picture - so I stick with just the one Dom, though I do talk to others as friends.

I also don't like to submit at the same time as being dominant - so I don't like to have a long term sub alongside... even though I might sub sit from time to time or guide a submissive towards following the rules given to them by their own dominants when I know the rules and the situation.

Even though I am primarily a sub, I do like to dabble a little in being Domme from time to time and feeling the rushes associated with the other side but I know that my health won't allow me to manage a sub full time - especially not the type of sub that I am drawn to... so, I am better placed as a part-time Domme, who can occasionally wet Her feet with the odd scene here and there.

I have 5 Doms. They all know each other. They don’t mind sharing. All 5 have a different way in using me as their sub.

I’m a one man woman so I don’t know either. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Variety the spice of life.