It's the 21 first century guys can say another guy is handsome without being closeted, right?

@Torsten i don't mean in public i mean casually online and it's like that where I live too if I gay guy openly hits on a straight guy in public the gay guy might get a fist thrown at him.

@Lostpoet i would say its the same online except you dont get hit for it. its just not something most men want to hear i guess because its kinda weird. Its like 2 men hugging, thats weird to me. I dont even like shaking other mens hands..
maybe the issue is with me but yeah if i like a guy, i will give him shit, like bag him out or whatever and if he thinks im cool back, he will do the same.

@Torsten I grew up in a church with a secret handshake that's how we were taught to meet people. My nephews and nieces used to hug me hello and goodbye when they were younger, but other than that I don't think I've ever hugged anyone outside of maybe a girlfriend or two.

@Torsten I'm good with the lgbtq community i think people should be themselves and as long as they are consenting adults then I see nothing wrong.

@Lostpoet ahh see its not just me. Hugging people who are not family or who you're intimate with is just weird

@Lostpoet there isnt anything wrong with two consenting adults doing what they please with one another, just as long as they dont try forcing it upon others

@Torsten yeah, I don't think it's ever even come up before. Lol

I also believe in personal space and it's definitely not fun if someone crosses over it, so I can see how if someone doesn't want to be affiliated with someone of the same sex that they would have a problem with another man saying that they are cute online. I would never do it to someone unless I knew they were ok with it.

There was that guy that went on Jenny Jones and was publically humiliated and then he turned around and shot the offender dead. I don't think he should have shot the guy, but I can see how being publically humiliated might lead someone to that kind of anger and I don't think the guy that murdered him should of got life in prison. But I'm jumping topics so I'll stop here.

@Lostpoet my older brother is gay and i get on great with his husband. His a cool guy but i still dont wanna see them be intimate with one another such as kissing or whatever.
in saying that though im the same way with straight couples. I dont wanna see that shit haha.
Just keep it all to yourselves.

i havent heard of the jenny jones stuff before