Work bestie asked how things are going with New Guy
So....if she can tell I'm struggling, why did she say "You're in a perfectly fine place"?
46-50, F
So....if she can tell I'm struggling, why did she say "You're in a perfectly fine place"?
LeGrotesque · 46-50, F
@ReptilianFromPlanetCrush it doesn't matter anymore
UndeadSona · F
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
without explicit details about why you consider your own situation to be so fucked up no ones really going to be able to you know, know if you're just crazy and way too hard on yourself as women often are or it's actually a messed up place.having known more than a few women over the years they can be their own worst enemy and be harder on themselves than anyone around them.for all I know maybe you just beat yourself up way too hard.
LeGrotesque · 46-50, F
@PDXNative1986 fair enough. Nobody has to understand.
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@LeGrotesque I'm making a point about your question and your friend. she likely doesn't know you well enough to know the details under a microscope like you do so of course i'd probably be saying similar if you worked with me because I don't know enough about your inner world to know if you are just too self critical or it's actually messed up.