I used to work for DADS the department of aging and disability teaching living skills i helped people find jobs, taught them to live independently, helped them get apartments etc. maybe the program that she's trying to put you in can be a plus and can help you make things smoother in your life. Is it a dayhab program? What type of program is it, whats its purpose?

She’s likely just worried about what life may look like for you when she’s not around and thinking of ways that she can help you. Parents worry a lot!

Well hmm, I hear good things about this stuff. You might want to give it a try sometime.

(In all seriousness though I hope things improve for you.)

Things could be worse.
My folks just tried to beat the oddness out of me.