I feel the same about my brother. He’s going insane and is a trouble maker. He’s doing such bad shit so I’m expected to be the perfect obedient one. He takes up all the room and doesn’t give me space to make my own mistakes. I’m struggling with so much of my own issues but I can’t even get professional help because he’s the one that everyone pays attention to. Basically since my mom’s stressed out on working 2 jobs and solving his problems, I can’t get help solving my own.