aaaw talk to your mom children should not suffer for divorce he still your daddy divorce or not

Massive hugs

If I could, I'd clone my own parents and provide them to all the cheated children.

But I can't. All I can do is to suggest that some people should never be parents and many should not be parents while they're trying to get their own act together.

I can only imagine your hurt and anger and sense of abandonment. I am so sorry.

Never forget that his selfishness and angry nature are his failings, not yours. You planned ahead for your visit with him and he backed out with no explanation. It does not in any way reflect YOUR value.

Your mom couldn't fix him and neither can you.

I'm sorry, honey.