I feel much very stress, girlfreind drink then she singing an shouting on street, neybors complaning she knock on theirs doors to shuot at they
18-21, M
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Letmakecake101 · 18-21, M
@OlderSometimesWiser but I dont want abanden her she do be say she need me
@Letmakecake101 You’re too young to be putting up with this. If she’s not willing to change and take actual steps to change, you need to save yourself. If she won’t do anything to better herself, the situation is only gonna get worse.
Letmakecake101 · 18-21, M
@OlderSometimesWiser I knwo you are righte,but I think I to have truble to accept this, because my love for her. I hope I say this corectly
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Letmakecake101 That’s what she’s counting on, that your love will make you unable to make clear boundaries.
If you think you’re helping her by enabling her, you are dead wrong. You’re just making it much easier for her to behave outrageously. Sooner or later she will maneuver you into a position of “protecting” her from authorities and YOU’LL get arrested.
If you stay, you’ll get caught up in her mess.
The ONLY reason she’ll stop such behavior is when it costs her more in terms of money, freedom, and status than she’s willing to pay. It’s called “hitting bottom.”
If she disrespects your wishes and lifestyle, does she actually love you? I don’t think so.
And all else aside, do YOU think your neighbors deserve such treatment? By supporting her, you’re telling everybody, “I don’t care enough to do something.”
She will not lift you up, my friend, but she’ll drag you down as low as you allow.
If you think you’re helping her by enabling her, you are dead wrong. You’re just making it much easier for her to behave outrageously. Sooner or later she will maneuver you into a position of “protecting” her from authorities and YOU’LL get arrested.
If you stay, you’ll get caught up in her mess.
The ONLY reason she’ll stop such behavior is when it costs her more in terms of money, freedom, and status than she’s willing to pay. It’s called “hitting bottom.”
If she disrespects your wishes and lifestyle, does she actually love you? I don’t think so.
And all else aside, do YOU think your neighbors deserve such treatment? By supporting her, you’re telling everybody, “I don’t care enough to do something.”
She will not lift you up, my friend, but she’ll drag you down as low as you allow.