Idk what to do.

How can I thank him other than a verbal thank you. He helped me out with money for my rent today. Now I'm feeling weird and guilty but I had no other way and I was stressing. How can I thank him I already got a BJ in mind of course but there needs to be something else I'm.very grateful for him. My sweet bf.

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PhoenixPhail · M

I would save the BJ for just giving him pleasure. Your boyfriend's helping you out with the rent was very sweet. But if it's a true gift, there's no reciprocation required. It was a gift, not a trade agreement.

joe438 · 61-69, M

Honestly, a well-meant, sincere hug would go a long way. He didn’t help you for a reward.

disturbedchicken · 31-35, F

@joe438 you're right.

Bowenw · 61-69, M

You don't have to thank him further, but dinner would be nice.

Bleed · 41-45, F

Using sex to thank your partner is a slippery slope no one should go down. Sex should be spontaneous and done just for the pure enjoyment of it. It shouldn’t be traded or used as a weapon.

disturbedchicken · 31-35, F

@Bleed yeah, ik that I just like pleasing my man overall ig it's my little way of showing gratitude.

SinlessOnslaught · M

Don't give men sex for money and don't feel guilty for accepting help. Just be there to return the favor in some way when you can.

Not through sex.

disturbedchicken · 31-35, F

@SinlessOnslaught yeah, ik. He's my bf though and I enjoy it. I'm thinking of cooking him a nice dinner.

SinlessOnslaught · M

@disturbedchicken That would be awesome.

Jonjdw · 51-55, M

If he is your boyfriend. The bj is probably enough. I don’t know him, so I don’t know what else he would like.

TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M

Do NOT thank him with sex. Sex should just be separate from the thank you dinner sounds nice

JamesBugman

Bake him an apple pie, whipped cream (can be used for more than just the pie), shave pubes into a heart. I dunno, be creative.
Candles and sex on the beach?

V00doo

A hug. Time with him. Not sex.

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