is there anything wrong with being a 'recluse'

i am a reclusive figure,i like to stay indoors and seclude myself from people, i rarely go out and only when i have to, so i'm a recluse but then at times i get lonely....because i would like a special person in my life, a nice chick.....but then i'm in my late 40s and have mental health challenges.

so what do you think?

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Well I see a huge contradiction in your situation.
Maybe this can help you out a bit.

Your comfortable being isolated.
No problem.
The only thing with isolation is, it is hard to meet woman that aren't around.

So, if you want to meet a woman you need to go where woman are.

You could like designate one day a week to not isolating and go where woman go.

Then you would kind of be able to do both.