is there anything wrong with being a 'recluse'

i am a reclusive figure,i like to stay indoors and seclude myself from people, i rarely go out and only when i have to, so i'm a recluse but then at times i get lonely....because i would like a special person in my life, a nice chick.....but then i'm in my late 40s and have mental health challenges.

so what do you think?

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Massageman · 70-79, M

Being "reclusive" isn't the problem. Being that way and then expecting everyone ELSE to come to help when something happens with no reciprocity- THAT could be the problem.