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Not Where I Wanted to Be At This Age
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What I know now

All I ever wanted was to love someone that loved me back.

It’s hard for me to look at it all and wonder how everyone just blamed me for everything when I gave what I could and really tried.

But in the aftermath of everything I look at all the advice out there that says me being who they wanted me to be is what killed their respect and love for me….

I find that fact completely fucked up!
HikingMan
51-55, M
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Magenta · F
Sounds like they had a transactional type love. It seems to me many don't even know true human nature and can't accept it. It's like some perfect ideal or high expectation of something else in their head.
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HikingMan · 51-55, M
@Magenta We’ve normalized the part of human conditioning that says everyone but ourselves are expendable and replaceable.
That there’s always something or someone else out there that’s better or more enticing.

Loyalty and suffering through the hard times just isn’t an option most are willing to accept.
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Magenta · F
@HikingMan Sad hard facts right there. Plus being obsessed with boundaries.
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HikingMan · 51-55, M
@Magenta Yes.
Their boundaries, not yours…
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