Aidan · 26-30, F
I feel like thats almost everyone in our age group. :(

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I understand what you're saying...but... you're 26-30 years old. I'm 58. I know it's hard to accept - but you really do have time to get where you want to go. I've had a few left and right turns myself. I'm on my second career... numerous internal changes. I divorced and re-married, and am very blessed.
Put your faith in God, let Him direct you - but do get to work in the direction you want to go.
Your generation has certainly gone through a disorienting time. But filter out the noise, and get your own North Star
Put your faith in God, let Him direct you - but do get to work in the direction you want to go.
Your generation has certainly gone through a disorienting time. But filter out the noise, and get your own North Star
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@Seven2123 Yes.. I was 34 when I turned that (bad) situation around. That said... of course there have been other twists and turns, some of them not what I wanted. But all remains well.
And yes... the way to lose is to give up trying. Our society is full of people who've done that, but the worse part about that, is as a society we've begun to enable that... and enable them in their victimhood.
And yes... the way to lose is to give up trying. Our society is full of people who've done that, but the worse part about that, is as a society we've begun to enable that... and enable them in their victimhood.

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@Seven2123 I sent an IM. Maybe you don't IM, just checking.
Seven2123 · 31-35, F
@SW-User I agree, there needs to be some personal accountability for growth to take place. I don't think very many people know or understands what it means to "sit with themselves". There's a saying, you may not be responsible for your traumas but, you're responsive for your own healing.
I think society as a whole has become complacent and consumed with this wounded mindset.
I think society as a whole has become complacent and consumed with this wounded mindset.
I feel the same. But I am happy. If I was where I wanted, I wouldn't have become the kind of person I am today. Getting everything you want in life is more dangerous than getting only half of them. :)